@bhanny- I am with you my brother. In my younger days I was into the scents that would throw a big scent trail and aura around me. I have gone totally in the other direction. Oud for me is more for the user then for leaving a mark in the crowd.
@ Kesiro - I know exactly what you mean. These days when I am using scents, especially precious Ouds, I only swipe a tiny amound on freshly washed beard / skin directly under my nose. They are for me to enjoy.
It is interesting to see how others experience, enjoy and wear oud. Oud for many, now and historically, is a very personal and spiritual thing, as well as being something to be shared. As far as sharing and as a Muslim, we follow the Hadith and Sunnah of our beloved prophet Muhammad(SAWS), in hadith it was reported:
~ Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) never used to refuse Taib (attar, perfume oils, oil fragrances, musk oils) and used to say that the Prophet (peace be upon him) never used to refuse (a gift of) scent.
[sahih al-Bukhari / V7 / H5929]~
~Whoever is given Taib (attar, perfume oil, oil fragrances, musk oil), he should not refuse it, because it has a good smell and it is light to carry.
[sunan Abu Dawud / V4 / H4172 / Hadeeth Sahh]~
There are many times when I just want to sit and listen to an oil, internalizing and focusing on its scent progression, dynamism and realizing any of the more psychoactive qualities of the oil that I may perceive. Although I do and enjoy that I typically wear oud more prominently heavy, dependent on setting and appropriateness of course as I live in the West. In Hadith it was reported:
~Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) states that when a companion would desire to visit the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) and would not find him, they would track him by his fragrance in the streets.~
~Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) said that, 'When the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) went down the road, anyone who had followed him knew that he had passed that way because of his scent.~
Now, as a side note about refusing and don't you say anything @bhanny, I didn't refuse but rather I asked for a raincheck. Because your not trying to do anything but get me in a whole heap a trouble and put in the doghouse, and besides that my wife knows where I keep my cutlass. I know your taste and know for sure that anything you'd send me I'd just have to have. I don't just track my package because I can hardly wait to get it, I track it in an attempt to intercept it so I don't have to hear, "Oh, you got another one of those little packages from over seas". It's not easy guys.